What was the best part of your day — and the most boring?
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If we had a totally free Saturday next week, what would you want to do?
What’s a small thing that made you smile today?
What have you been quietly looking forward to lately?
What song has been stuck in your head this week?
When did you feel most like yourself this week?
Is there anything you’ve been carrying that you haven’t told me about?
What does feeling loved by me actually look like, day to day?
What’s something you’re afraid to want?
When do you feel closest to me, and when do you feel furthest?
What’s something ordinary from your day I’d have loved to be there for?
What’s the first thing you want to do together when we’re in the same place?
What does your space look like right now — walk me through it?
What’s been the hardest part of the distance this week, honestly?
What’s something I did recently that you appreciated but didn’t mention?
Who are you grateful for right now, besides me?
What’s a small comfort in your life you’d hate to lose?
What did you need from me during that, that you didn’t get?
Can you help me understand what hurt most about it?
What would “making it right” look like for you?
Is there anything I’m still not seeing?
If next year went really well for us, what would be different?
Where do you most want to travel together, and why that place?
What’s a tradition you’d love for us to start?
What does a good ordinary day look like for us in five years?
What’s your favourite memory of us from this past year?
When did you feel proudest of us recently?
What’s something we got through together that we should celebrate more?
If we were a cooking show, what would it be called?
What’s the most ridiculous thing we’ve argued about?
If you had to describe me to an alien using only food, what food?
What would our villain origin story be, as a couple?
What’s one small thing about me you’re missing right now?
What would we be doing right this minute if I were there?
What do you wish I could see from where you’re standing?
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